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You know your gay colleague is lonely he just doesn't tell you that he is lonely because he has seasonal affective disorder, or a Madame Alexander doll collection. The problem is people relate on a superficial level at work. My well-meaning friends invariably get into set-up mode: “You should go out with my friend!” Then they tell me they work with this great guy, who's interested in going out, and the momentum builds, and next thing I know they give me the guy's email address. It seems everyone where I live in New York has an entertaining gay officemate and water-cooler conversations revolving around dating, where the OGC routinely delivers the wittiest bits of interpersonal disaster. But the description of one's OGF is always vague: “He's very nice”-“He's sweet”-“He's a good guy”-anything that can be used to describe a soggy puppy or a scented candle.įrequently, the OGF isn't even an "F," but is more of a "C"-a colleague. The latter three groups are described specifically: “He has strong cheekbones and jet-black hair ” “He has won awards for inventing ecologically-sound water bottles made from plastic alternatives ” “He wears vintage Rolexes and can also discuss comparative religions”-and so forth. It's easy for me to tell when people are setting me up with an OGF, rather than with their CGF (coolest gay friend), HGF (hottest), or SGF (smartest). Because we both pleasured ourselves under a woolly blanket while lounging in our respective family rooms as pre-teens watching Tom Selleck on Magnum P.I.
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The supposed point of connection would be laughable, if it weren't so often assumed: Their OGF is gay I am gay. More than a few of those friends-thinking that I am a “catch” so why am I single?-have attempted to set me up with what I have termed their OGF, their "Other Gay Friend." There is a problem with being-gay-and-dating when most of my friends are straight. Why I Reject Popular Gay Culture (Or: What to Know Before Setting Me Up With Your Other Gay Friend) Stephen Milioti